Teens and kids aren’t capable enough to make strong decisions from the very onset of their life; they have their limitations because of immaturity and less exposure to external environment.
Parents most of the times become over conscious of their kids and try to force decisions. They ridicule their naive, feeble and immature approach and criticize and bully them which hurt them deeply.
Parents think that their kid is too weak in addressing the key issues related to their life so they must be dictated.
Teens get disturbed clinically as a result of overwhelming responses from their parents in the form of check and control. As a result, fearful teen starts resting back on their heels, waiting for orders to come and longing for things to happen for them. Because they are weary of the negative criticism from their parents in case their decision doesn’t produce what it is intended to.
This is a huge problem in the developing world specially because parents expect too much out of their teens and become too strict, too critical of their kids.
Treating kids harshly can destroy and do destroy their cognitive abilities and they eventually surrender and give up their efforts in achieving the goals set either by them or by their parents for them.
Two extreme patterns of parent-children relations that is either dealing him as too feeble to accommodate in this world or application of carrot and stick policy to make them live up to expectations damages the mental strength, intellect and intelligence of the teen.
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